Empowered Relationships

Resources to inspire action, invite change, and support growth.

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Perfectionism as trauma response

Perfectionism resulting from trauma works differently. The standards are not motivating; they are punishing. They rise higher as soon as you reach them, so satisfaction is always out of reach. Mistakes do not feel like chances to learn. Instead, they feel like proof - proof of unworthiness, proof that you are deeply flawed, proof that you deserve any pain that comes next.

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Navigating Relationship Stress During the Holidays

Holidays are here. They can be joyful and happy, they can also be stressful, especially when it comes to family and relationships. Excited to see your aunt Doris, but not looking forward to seeing uncle Bob? Juggling dodging conversations you don’t want to have and enjoying your time with extended family can be trying.  

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